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21:57Oh, shit. I thought we were meant to kiss on the lips.
21:59I think we can get to that.
22:01When do you think people's therapy sessions will move to, like, touch her and that?
22:04Mine already have. They already have, yeah.
22:06What, your therapist has sucked you off?
22:08No, not yet, but they might do today.
22:11I might ask her for that. She'll probably do it.
22:13Zach feels he's made such good progress that he's ready for more.
22:18I might fucking lose my virginity tonight.
22:20I don't know. I reckon tonight, I don't think I'll get it tonight.
22:23I think it'll be the next one.
22:24I think there's still... What, for you?
22:26No, for you. Well, I mean, I would know better than you.
22:30No, I'm not saying that, but I'm not trying to assume what you are.
22:32I'm saying what they will do.
22:34Yeah, they might think it's too fast.
22:42As evening falls...
22:44See you later, Zach. Have fun.
22:47Zach's confidence is still playing on Emma's mind.
22:50The thing is, Zach reckons he's going to lose his virginity tonight,
22:53and I'm like, fair play, I really like his ambitious thinking.
22:57But if you go into it thinking that, are you setting yourself a false expectation?
23:02And then are you going to be upset if it doesn't happen?
23:04Mm.
23:06Hello.
23:07Hello.
23:08And also, I feel like the therapist,
23:10if they don't think someone's ready for something that's severe,
23:13they're not going to let it happen.
23:15No.
23:18How have you been feeling since our last session?
23:20I'm feeling good.
23:22I'm excited, actually.
23:23Yeah.
23:23Yeah.
23:25I'm keen to move forward, definitely.
23:28Do you want to get going?
23:31Yes, please.
23:32Yeah.
23:33So we're just going to start standing.
23:36If it feels okay, we're going to take off our clothes.
23:39Does that feel okay?
23:40Mm-hmm.
23:41Yeah, it's okay.
23:43So I get partner therapy is definitely about way more than sex.
23:48It's about teaching really basic relationship skills, like connections,
23:53how to relate to others, being more organic.
23:56So I think people need to connect in a therapeutic way.
24:03Kat has an exercise to build that bond.
24:06She wants them to look into each other's eyes
24:09and share their honest, unspoken feelings.
24:19I want to move forward.
24:22What does that mean?
24:25I want to touch you and be touched by you.
24:29I think there's something in, like,
24:32emphasis on wanting to connect through touch
24:34that makes me feel like an immediate, like,
24:36oh, wait, I'm here.
24:41Honestly, I'm feeling a little
24:46coldness from you.
24:47You know, I'm just not feeling
24:50that desire from you that I need.
24:54Yeah.
24:55I mean, if I'm being totally honest
24:57and I feel that, like,
25:00emphasis on that physical part,
25:02that's when I get a little protective.
25:10I think I came in here, you know, confident
25:13and excited.
25:16Mm-hmm.
25:16I don't know if you're as used to that
25:20in this line of work
25:22and I don't know if you find that intimidating.
25:32I'm trying to help you learn
25:34how to, like, attune.
25:38But I don't know.
25:39I'm feeling blocked
25:40and I'm trying to understand why.
25:47Maybe it just doesn't work
25:48between you and me.
25:50That might be.
25:59Okay, and then I think we'll get dressed
26:01and that's enough for today.
26:03Okay.
26:16Hey.
26:17Hey.
26:18You all right?
26:18No.
26:20What's up?
26:23We're here to support each other, yeah?
26:27Oh.
26:28I can't even get laid by the person
26:30who's there to teach me how to do it.
26:33Thank you.
26:42Good morning, good morning.
26:42Good morning.
26:44Good morning.
26:44Good morning, Roger.
26:45Good morning.
26:46It's morning on day 10 of the retreat.
26:49What do you think was on the cards today, then, eh?
26:52I don't know.
26:52Oh, God, what if today is, like,
26:54just whack it off or something?
26:59Zach is feeling reflective.
27:02My session with Kat yesterday went terribly.
27:05It caused me a lot of distress
27:07that I would have offered to without.
27:11I'm feeling a lot more reserved and cautious.
27:17And everyone has noticed.
27:19Who do you think is actually going to sleep
27:21with their therapist?
27:22I would have said Zach,
27:23but after his little tumble yesterday,
27:25now I'm not so sure he's good.
27:26He wasn't good this morning.
27:28He walked past my cabin.
27:29I was like, how are you?
27:29He's shit.
27:30Yeah.
27:31Damn.
27:35Issues inevitably arise
27:36in surrogate partner therapy
27:38as it's such a unique relationship,
27:40which is why a clinical therapist is on hand
27:43to help solve problems.
27:45Hello.
27:57Alrighty, so I'm going to kind of open it up.
27:59I want to hear a little bit from you both
28:01of what's been going on.
28:02So if you, can you kind of share a little with me?
28:09So I left our session last night feeling very confused.
28:13It's not that I felt like I did anything wrong,
28:16but I feel like maybe I might have made you uncomfortable.
28:21And, you know, I'm sorry if that's the case.
28:25Can you, you know, give me a little bit
28:27about your experience, Kat?
28:29So we undressed and we were standing across from each other.
28:32Do you remember exactly what you said?
28:34Yeah, I said that I thought you might feel maybe intimidated.
28:38That's what it was saying.
28:39I felt intimidated by it.
28:41Like, that was definitely the point at which I was like,
28:43and the door is closed.
28:44Yeah.
28:45I'm sorry that my words sort of did that.
28:49What were you noticing inside of yourself?
28:56I was trying to figure out what was, I think,
28:59going inside your head, but I'm not a mind reader.
29:02I wasn't expecting you to be a mind reader.
29:04I was telling you what was going on,
29:06and I felt like instead of meeting that vulnerability
29:09with vulnerability, you met it with blame.
29:17Is it okay if I touch your knee?
29:21Yeah.
29:22Talk to me about what's coming up.
29:30You know, I find it hard to trust others emotionally
29:34and be vulnerable.
29:37That's something I can't do.
29:40Can I challenge your language there?
29:43I think it's something you can do,
29:45and I think it's okay to work with Kat building that muscle.
29:50She's willing to meet you and your humanity
29:52and your vulnerability and your fear,
29:55because that's what a partnership is.
29:58Thank you.
29:59I want to be more vulnerable.
30:02I want to share that with you.
30:08I want that connection.
30:18See you soon.
30:22I understand a little bit more
30:23how perhaps things could have gone better
30:27and how I should shape my expectations as well.
30:31Maybe just slow it down, go at a better pace.
30:35Try again next time.
30:38Hello, beautiful people.
30:40Hi, hi.
30:41Feeling any better?
30:43Yeah.
30:44A lot better, actually.
30:46Good.
30:47I feel like I have a plan of what I need to do.
30:52While Zach is feeling positive again...
30:54Spray the boobs.
30:56..23-year-old Pia hopes to overcome the one issue
30:59standing in the way of losing her virginity.
31:02I struggle a lot with, like, penetration,
31:05that side of things.
31:06Fair enough.
31:07So it's just, like, figuring out,
31:08what's going on down there?
31:10Ha-ha.
31:12I haven't had sex.
31:14I'm worried about it hurting.
31:15I'm worried about having an uncomfortable,
31:17painful experience.
31:18I've gotten to the point where I think
31:20this might be the person I lose my virginity to,
31:22but my chest gets tight.
31:24I feel like I can't breathe.
31:25I just get so anxious.
31:26I just feel like I can't do it.
31:27Um, so I really want to get past these anxieties,
31:31but I'm not sure how, um...
31:36Yeah.
31:41Sorry.
31:43It's really hard.
31:45Hello, Bia.
31:46The experts have sent Pia to meet Thomas,
31:49who may be able to help through sensual massage.
31:54So, I would be curious to know, before we start,
31:57like, what's your intention to follow the session?
31:59What's your goal?
32:00Yeah, so, because of my issues with, like,
32:03with, like, penetration and stuff,
32:04never really been able to explore it.
32:05Every time I've done it, even, like, with myself,
32:07I've kind of just, like, panicked and freaked out and stuff,
32:11because it just felt, like, uncomfortable.
32:12So, um, yeah, if I could just understand myself a bit better, then.
32:16Yeah, like, learn how to be relaxed
32:17while receiving touch, maybe.
32:19Exactly, yeah.
32:19It's great.
32:21So, basically, the session,
32:22we'll do, like, step-by-step exploration of your genitals.
32:25Okay.
32:26Yeah.
32:26What's pleasant, what's pleasurable, what's not pleasurable.
32:30And if you wish so, you can be fully naked, as you prefer.
32:34Okay, cool.
32:35Any more questions before we start?
32:37Uh-huh.
32:38I don't think so.
32:39Okay.
32:40Great.
32:40Sounds good.
32:41Thomas will use a technique known as genital mapping,
32:45an erotic exploration of the vagina through touch
32:48that releases tension.
32:50Pia really struggles with vaginismus.
32:53Vaginismus is basically, like, your vagina really being so clenched
32:58that it cannot let anything in.
33:01usually the source, both physical and mental, and I feel she is really anxious, so it might
33:09be really useful to do some body work in order to release the tension.
33:13So, ready?
33:16Yeah, ready.
33:18Just going really slow.
33:20Can't tell me, like, how much pressure I need.
33:23Oh.
33:23Yeah.
33:24A little bit, yeah.
33:26Yeah.
33:27Yeah.
33:27I can feel a bit of clenching in your vagina, I don't know.
33:29Yeah.
33:30Yeah.
33:30Just try to breathe into it and see, like, if it moves, if it changes,
33:35just being really welcoming with the sensation.
33:42Yeah, that feels, um, less uncomfortable.
33:46Yeah, that feels okay.
33:48Perfect.
33:49Now, I will just apply a bit more pressure for you to feel it.
33:53Yeah.
33:54Yeah, that feels okay.
33:57And apply some motion to see if it helps with the tightness.
34:02It's nice.
34:04It's nice.
34:04It's nice?
34:04Yeah.
34:09Mm.
34:11Mm.
34:14Mm.
34:15Mm.
34:17Mm.
34:17Mm.
34:17Oh, my God.
34:18Ah, that's beautiful.
34:21I don't feel scared of it anymore.
34:23I feel, um, more like I have a better understanding of myself and my vagina, so I'm very happy.
34:31As Pia basks in the glow of her first successful penetration...
34:36Jason, look at my little pet.
34:39Oh, my God.
34:39Okay.
34:41There's one thing on Jason's mind, too.
34:44It takes men 30 seconds to two minutes, I think, for a man to get a correction,
34:49so they're basically ready for sex.
34:51It can take women 30 to 40 minutes.
34:54Fuck off.
34:57Jason has dived head first into somatic therapy.
35:01In some ways, I feel like he gets the most pleasure out-of-touch experiences of anybody who arrived.
35:06And this is somebody who couldn't even receive a hug.
35:10But there's definitely still things for him to work on.
35:13Hello.
35:13After his first kiss, the experts think Jason is ready to experience a whole new level of intimate touch.
35:19Hi.
35:20Hello, you all right?
35:21So he's having another session with Joy.
35:25So, do you feel ready to take your clothes off into the buff?
35:30Yeah.
35:30Yeah?
35:30Cool.
35:31Okay.
35:38Can we connect?
35:40Yes.
35:43Just...
35:44Really nice.
35:50See, we don't even have to try.
35:55I'm aroused.
35:56Yeah.
35:57Yeah.
35:58Yeah, I noticed.
36:00Can I do a kiss?
36:01Yeah.
36:17Gorgeous noise.
36:19Thank you.
36:21Thank you.
36:21Thank you.
36:38Thank you.
37:05Thank you.
37:06I'm going to stop my legs.
37:08Oh, that's amazing.
37:10You look great.
37:13Yeah.
37:14Thank you, Joy.
37:16I'm seriously mean.
37:17Thank you.
37:19There's Jason.
37:20Hello.
37:22Still a virgin.
37:23Aw, dammit.
37:24But we ran on the bed, rolled around in there.
37:26Fuck off.
37:27Took a bra off and then...
37:28Is this in a teepee?
37:29In a teepee.
37:30Fuck off.
37:30We were just kissing and so on.
37:31And then, erm...
37:32And then I climaxed.
37:34Wow.
37:35It's easier said than done.
37:36But just being in the moment really helps.
37:40I'm ready for the real world now.
37:42But I'm really uncomfortable.
37:44Can I go to my tent?
37:45Can I turn my boxes?
37:47Please.
37:54It's the afternoon on Virgin Island.
37:58You're working it all off?
37:59All of it?
37:59Yeah.
38:00All of it's good.
38:02Who's shaving it?
38:03Me.
38:04And after he's set back with Kat, Zach's ready for a fresh start.
38:10Do you want all these bits on the bottom to go as well?
38:13Yeah, honestly, I want everything to go.
38:16Ready?
38:16I'm ready.
38:17You want to say anything?
38:19No.
38:19Do it.
38:21Do it.
38:23Yay!
38:25Okay.
38:26Here you go.
38:26Brilliant.
38:29What does this symbolise for you?
38:31New beginnings.
38:33Yay!
38:36It's been a long time coming.
38:38Oh, we're going to slap this head so hard.
38:42That way to this proper smooth.
38:43It looks so good.
38:44This is a good head.
38:45I'd like rubbing this head.
38:47Like a genie in a lamp.
38:49Feel the fuzz.
38:50Feel the fuzz.
38:54Feel the fuzz.
38:57Feeling good?
38:59It's like a fresh fade, honestly.
39:01It is, isn't it?
39:02It's really good.
39:03Whilst the group admires Zach's new look, Viraj and Emma are talking orgasms.
39:08So you didn't go back to your tent and have one?
39:10No, no.
39:12Have you had one since it's been there?
39:15Do you want to know?
39:16Yeah.
39:16The fact you'll know answer is definitely an answer.
39:20Have you?
39:23Really?
39:24No comment.
39:25Come on.
39:27Maybe.
39:29Maybe.
39:30I have a little bit, but I have an orgasm, though.
39:35After Emma's unsuccessful attempt to reach orgasm, Celeste wants to teach her how to get the most out of her
39:41vibrator, so that she can climax for the first time.
39:45Can you bring out your toy and I can just show you a little bit how to use it?
39:49Yes, of course I can.
39:49Because I think that might help you.
39:50Yeah, no.
39:51That's the kind I use too, so I'm very familiar.
39:53Okay, brilliant.
39:54The first time, you kind of have to hold it down.
39:56Right.
39:57See, to me, that feels quite, like, vicious.
39:59Okay, so actually, you can just start, like, with your fingers and then work your way up to the vibrator.
40:06The hands, I'm just a bit unsure on how to approach it.
40:11So at first, you can just, like, do, like, very light.
40:15Okay.
40:16And then just explore and see where the place feels, like, the most sensation.
40:21Right.
40:21And then you might just make, like, little circles there.
40:24Okay.
40:24Sometimes you have to get kind of fast in order to actually get to orgasm.
40:28And, like, when I masturbate, it's like, who cares what my body looks like or what it's doing?
40:32I'm just thinking, how do I get that sensation more?
40:35With an orgasm as such, is it, like, an instant, like, climax and then it drops?
40:40Or when you're up there, does it last?
40:42It'll be, like, a slow build.
40:44Once you're up there, you'll probably feel, like, a release.
40:46Like, sometimes you feel your muscles sort of go, like, that.
40:49Right, okay, okay.
40:50Because that's what actually happens in your body.
40:52Different women are different.
40:53Yeah.
40:53So, I was thinking, today, maybe we could have a rite of passage.
40:59Yeah.
40:59Where you become an adult in the erotic realm.
41:02Yes.
41:02Yes?
41:03Okay, yeah.
41:03I want you to think of this self-pleasuring experience, like, this is Emma becoming a powerful, wise woman in
41:15the world.
41:15Yeah.
41:15We've made a special space.
41:18Okay.
41:19For you to be able to have that alone time.
41:21Right, okay.
41:22Ready?
41:24Oh, my God, is it going to happen now?
41:26Oh, my God.
41:27Yeah, I'm taking you over to the room.
41:29Okay, okay.
41:31Oh, thank you, thank you.
41:33Right, okay.
41:34This is scary.
41:52After an hour of alone time, Emma emerges.
41:55I think I managed to achieve my first orgasm ever.
41:59It's such a weird feeling because it's kind of unpredictable and it's hard to explain.
42:06Kind of left me speechless a little bit.
42:08It just...
42:09I feel like everything makes sense.
42:11Like, that sounds so weird, but I just feel a lot more at peace.
42:15I couldn't even imagine the feeling of it.
42:19All this build-up, and how have I only just done that sort of thing?
42:23Like, how have I not explored this before?
42:25And I think I'm just looking forward to the next one.
42:34But it's not just Emma that's learning more about the female anatomy.
42:38The first time I touched my vagina, a cat started laughing at me
42:40because I made a really weird face.
42:42Because I didn't expect it to feel...
42:44It's so, like, jelly-like.
42:46I didn't expect that.
42:47Have you felt it, though?
42:48Yeah.
42:50What, a certain cat?
42:51Yeah.
42:52Really?
42:53Cool.
42:55After touching a vagina, Dave's a changed man.
42:58But he still hasn't had any sex with a partner.
43:02I just want to actually get over these difficulties I have.
43:06That could be really, really life-changing.
43:11Hi.
43:11Hello, how are you?
43:13Good.
43:14I'm really scared.
43:15I'm really scared that I could just be too awkward and I could blow it.
43:23So on the orgasm face of the course, cat escalates.
43:27My suggestion for today would be to do turn-taking more erotic genital touch with, like, a soft goal of
43:36orgasm.
43:41I feel obviously slightly nervous.
43:44About escalation?
43:45Yeah.
43:47Yeah.
43:50Like...
43:54Do you know what I mean?
43:55I wouldn't be hard on yourself about it.
43:58Try just relaxing.
43:59Yeah.
44:00Yeah?
44:01Okay.
44:01Are you ready to get going?
44:03Yeah.
44:03Sure.
44:04So we're going to undress.
44:11So you can go ahead and lie down.
44:15And I want you to just direct my touch.
44:19Okay.
44:19Yeah.
44:21Would you be able to just start on my balls?
44:26Yeah.
44:26Yeah.
44:29And maybe move up to the bottom of my head.
44:42Yeah.
44:42That's nice.
44:44That feels good?
44:45Yeah, that feels good.
44:46I mean, all of it feels good.
44:51And just close your eyes.
45:09Yeah.
45:11Yeah.
45:14But this session is all about taking turns.
45:17Oil is there.
45:19Yep.
45:20And go for it.
45:22Okay.
45:26A little slower.
45:29Yeah.
45:30And then just do a little more pressure.
45:43I had a little orgasm.
45:48It's okay to go to, like, Cuddley?
45:50Cuddley?
45:51Yeah.
45:53Yeah.
45:58Well, what would you like to do with the next session?
46:01I would like to be the Virginie.
46:03You would?
46:04Yeah.
46:05Yay.
46:09Next time...
46:10Would you like to move to bed?
46:12Yeah, that's it.
46:14Who out of the group...
46:15You are a fucking goddess.
46:19...will make the most of...
46:21Okay.
46:23There are last days on Virgin Island.
46:26Their last days on Virgin Island.
46:27They're dead.
46:28They're dead.
46:29They're dead.
46:30They're dead.
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